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Why We Return to What Hurts Us: Trauma Bonds, Love-Bombing, and the Familiarity of Pain
We don’t return to toxic relationships because we want pain. We return because trauma bonds make familiar hurt feel safer than unfamiliar peace. This essay explores the biology, psychology, and identity patterns that keep people tied to what harms them—and how to finally break the cycle.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 226 min read


What is Real Love? The Space to Heal
Love isn’t rescue, and it isn’t a performance. It’s the quiet space where two people can breathe, face themselves, and grow without fear. In this essay, I explore love as safety—not salvation—and why healing happens only where judgment ends.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 205 min read


The Silence Cure: Silence as Medicine for the Nervous System
Silence is more than peace of mind—it’s biological repair. Discover how stillness lowers cortisol, regenerates neurons, and restores the nervous system’s natural rhythm.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 253 min read


Resistance vs. Resilience: The Two Faces of Strength
In medicine, ecology, and psychology, resistance vs resilience defines how we survive change. One holds the line; the other learns to rebuild it. True strength lies in knowing when to stand firm—and when to bend.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 154 min read


The Medicine of Truth: Emotional Honesty in Relationships
Emotional honesty isn’t conflict—it’s connection. Learn how truth spoken with empathy heals the nervous system, reduces stress hormones, and strengthens trust in relationships.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 144 min read


The Myth of Happiness
For centuries, we’ve searched for happiness like treasure. Yet true joy isn’t found—it’s remembered. Discover how biology and mindfulness lead us home.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 134 min read
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