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When Chaos Feels Safe: Childhood Trauma, the RAS, and the Empath’s Path Home
When chaos feels safe, it is not a flaw in character but a nervous system that learned vigilance early. This piece explores childhood trauma, hypervigilance, and how the body relearns safety when danger is gone.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Jan 146 min read


Fawn Response Trauma: When Survival Looks Like Kindness
When “being easy” becomes survival, the body remembers. This post explores fawn response trauma—how it forms, how it hides in plain sight, and how healing begins.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 29, 20255 min read


Why We Return to What Hurts Us: Trauma Bonds, Love-Bombing, and the Familiarity of Pain
We don’t return to toxic relationships because we want pain. We return because trauma bonds make familiar hurt feel safer than unfamiliar peace. This essay explores the biology, psychology, and identity patterns that keep people tied to what harms them—and how to finally break the cycle.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 22, 20256 min read


What is Real Love? The Space to Heal
Love isn’t rescue, and it isn’t a performance. It’s the quiet space where two people can breathe, face themselves, and grow without fear. In this essay, I explore love as safety—not salvation—and why healing happens only where judgment ends.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 20, 20255 min read


We Are Not Born with Instructions: The Human Body Already Knows
We come into the world untrained, yet the body already holds the wisdom to live, heal, and find balance—if we learn to listen.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 11, 20255 min read


The Facility of Us: Awareness at the Edge of Extinction
We are the only species that builds machines to escape silence and then fears what they might reveal. This is a reflection on awareness, extinction, and whether humanity can remember humility before it disappears.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 5, 20254 min read


Invisible Forces and Health: Magnetism, Tides, Breath
We live inside invisible forces — magnetism, tides, breath — that shape our health even when we don’t notice them. This blog reveals how unseen rhythms in nature affect the heart, brain, sleep, and healing.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 31, 20256 min read


When Words Don’t Walk: The Medicine of Action
Most people live between knowing and doing — caught in the noise of words that never walk. In this reflection, Dr. Howard Friedman explores the quiet medicine of action, where awareness becomes movement and healing begins.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 29, 20254 min read


The Silence Cure: Silence as Medicine for the Nervous System
Silence is more than peace of mind—it’s biological repair. Discover how stillness lowers cortisol, regenerates neurons, and restores the nervous system’s natural rhythm.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 25, 20253 min read
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