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Why We Return to What Hurts Us: Trauma Bonds, Love-Bombing, and the Familiarity of Pain
We don’t return to toxic relationships because we want pain. We return because trauma bonds make familiar hurt feel safer than unfamiliar peace. This essay explores the biology, psychology, and identity patterns that keep people tied to what harms them—and how to finally break the cycle.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 226 min read


We Are Not Born with Instructions: The Human Body Already Knows
We come into the world untrained, yet the body already holds the wisdom to live, heal, and find balance—if we learn to listen.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 115 min read


The Reticular Activating System (RAS): The Gatekeeper of Awareness
We don’t see the world as it is — we see what the reticular activating system allows through. This ancient gatekeeper in the brainstem filters danger, memory, love, and pain before the mind ever knows. For veterans and anyone living with trauma, awareness isn’t weakness — it’s the first step back to peace.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 96 min read


The Age of Noise: How We Lost the Thread
We’re living in an age where every moment is loud—news, notifications, opinions, outrage. This blog explores how constant noise distorts our thinking, weakens trust, floods the body with stress, and shows how we can recover clarity, truth, and silence.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 84 min read


The Medicine of Awareness: Why We Come to Feel
Awareness is not something we create — it is something we conduct. This blog explores how the brain, heart, and body translate awareness into emotion, sensation, and meaning. Why do we feel? Because awareness came here to experience, to learn through joy and pain, and to remember itself through us.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 43 min read


Invisible Forces and Health: Magnetism, Tides, Breath
We live inside invisible forces — magnetism, tides, breath — that shape our health even when we don’t notice them. This blog reveals how unseen rhythms in nature affect the heart, brain, sleep, and healing.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 316 min read


Consciousness as a Vital Sign
Medicine charts the pulse, not the presence. This blog explores why consciousness—the witness within the patient—may be the most overlooked vital sign in modern medicine.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 174 min read
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