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Fawn Response Trauma: When Survival Looks Like Kindness
When “being easy” becomes survival, the body remembers. This post explores fawn response trauma—how it forms, how it hides in plain sight, and how healing begins.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 295 min read


Why We Return to What Hurts Us: Trauma Bonds, Love-Bombing, and the Familiarity of Pain
We don’t return to toxic relationships because we want pain. We return because trauma bonds make familiar hurt feel safer than unfamiliar peace. This essay explores the biology, psychology, and identity patterns that keep people tied to what harms them—and how to finally break the cycle.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 226 min read


THE NEXUS OF GUILT AND OBLIGATION
Many people confuse guilt with obligation and end up living their lives on auto-pilot, saying yes out of fear instead of choice. This piece breaks down why we overcommit, how it affects our health, and how to reclaim emotional clarity and freedom.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 145 min read


We Are Not Born with Instructions: The Human Body Already Knows
We come into the world untrained, yet the body already holds the wisdom to live, heal, and find balance—if we learn to listen.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 115 min read


The Reticular Activating System (RAS): The Gatekeeper of Awareness
We don’t see the world as it is — we see what the reticular activating system allows through. This ancient gatekeeper in the brainstem filters danger, memory, love, and pain before the mind ever knows. For veterans and anyone living with trauma, awareness isn’t weakness — it’s the first step back to peace.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 96 min read


Burn Pit Exposure Veterans: Desert Dust and The Air That Follows Veterans Home
The air in the desert was never empty—it carried dust, smoke, oil, and memory. Long after deployment, veterans are left with breathlessness, fatigue, and inflammation written into their bodies. This is the war made of air.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 65 min read


The Facility of Us: Awareness at the Edge of Extinction
We are the only species that builds machines to escape silence and then fears what they might reveal. This is a reflection on awareness, extinction, and whether humanity can remember humility before it disappears.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 54 min read


The Medicine of Awareness: Why We Come to Feel
Awareness is not something we create — it is something we conduct. This blog explores how the brain, heart, and body translate awareness into emotion, sensation, and meaning. Why do we feel? Because awareness came here to experience, to learn through joy and pain, and to remember itself through us.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Nov 43 min read


Invisible Forces and Health: Magnetism, Tides, Breath
We live inside invisible forces — magnetism, tides, breath — that shape our health even when we don’t notice them. This blog reveals how unseen rhythms in nature affect the heart, brain, sleep, and healing.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 316 min read


When Words Don’t Walk: The Medicine of Action
Most people live between knowing and doing — caught in the noise of words that never walk. In this reflection, Dr. Howard Friedman explores the quiet medicine of action, where awareness becomes movement and healing begins.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 294 min read


The Hidden Clock: Understanding Long Latency Disease
Disease unfolds in silence. Dr. Howard Friedman reveals how cellular memory, time, and resilience shape the long path from exposure to diagnosis — especially for veterans.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 284 min read


The Silence Cure: Silence as Medicine for the Nervous System
Silence is more than peace of mind—it’s biological repair. Discover how stillness lowers cortisol, regenerates neurons, and restores the nervous system’s natural rhythm.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 253 min read


Consciousness as a Vital Sign
Medicine charts the pulse, not the presence. This blog explores why consciousness—the witness within the patient—may be the most overlooked vital sign in modern medicine.
Dr. Howard A. Friedman MD, founder of HHOM LLC
Oct 174 min read
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